I have a few thoughts about a year in the life today... I started my job at Fair Oaks exactly one year ago. I'm not usually great at remembering dates, but today is also my mom's birthday - the third one she hasn't been around to share with us. (She would have been 77)
So, it makes sense that the whole how do you measure a year in the life thing would be bouncing around my head as I went into work this morning. It's been quite a year. For 15 years before I went to the housing authority, I was the story lady for the outreach department at our public library. The switch from deciding which stories children at Head Start would hear each week to determining which of them might get to have or stay in homes has been about as difficult as you might expect. The highs are higher, and rarer, while the lows are extremely low and way too damned consistent.
My mother spent her whole life working in social services. I channel her quite often when I think another day of it might be more than I can take, and it helps. But, on this day, a very, very, very horrible crime was committed in the early hours of the morning. We have violence as a part of our daily bread it seems, but this was different. There was none of the usual edgy anger and energy that seems to break out after a serious crime; it was quiet as hell in our office today. The only resident I spoke with about what happened told me about her connection to it as a way to explain the silent tears she couldn't keep off of her face during our previously scheduled appointment. I sent her home.
The only regular business came from applicants - people looking for a home who aren't yet part of our community, and were unaware of how we'd been hurt.
Enter the voice. A tiny, beautiful baby girl came in with her mother, and I swear she smelled the evil we were all holding in our thoughts - she screamed, she wailed, she sobbed. Every woman in the place took a turn trying to comfort her, but there was nothing anyone could do to take her pain away. And no one could not hear her.
There was nowhere to hide from her full out anguish, and it sounded exactly the way we all felt - it was the anthem of this day, and she sang it.
And in the middle of all that, I thought about the voices I heard in rehearsal Sunday night. Being able to add the emotional resonance of music to the story we're telling is an awesome gift. I believe that the process we're going through to make this thing real is going to create a sound no one will be able to not hear, and I need to believe that the love and hope it generates will help us to create a community working to find a way to stop the kind of story that baby girl's anthem told.